Appreciating MentorsÌýDuring National Mentoring Month
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January isÌý, a time toÌýacknowledgeÌýand appreciateÌýtheÌýimpactÌýmentorsÌýhaveÌýpersonally and professionallyÌýon their mentees, and the significance mentoring hasÌýon society.ÌýResearch and countless studies haveÌýdemonstratedÌýthat mentors positivelyÌýimpactÌýyouth, collegeÌýstudentsÌýand employees.
Think back for a momentÌýon an influential mentor in your life.ÌýPerhapsÌýitÌýwas a parent, family member, coach,ÌýteacherÌýor supervisor.ÌýFor me, it was Dr. Jim Kirk, founder and formerÌýdirector of the Human Resource Development program at Western Carolina UniversityÌýandÌýadvisorÌýduring my graduate studies at WCU.ÌýDr. KirkÌýwas the epitomeÌýof aÌýskilledÌýmentor.ÌýHe modeledÌýa unique blendÌýof subject matterÌýexpertise,ÌýhumilityÌýand a good dose of candor that many of us neededÌýto hear but rarely everÌýdo.Ìý
The word “mentorâ€Ìýcomes fromÌýGreek mythology.ÌýMentorÌýwas Odysseus's friendÌýand wasÌýentrusted withÌýeducating hisÌýson Telemachus.ÌýToday, Merriam-Webster definesÌýaÌýmentor asÌý“a trusted counselor or guide.â€ÌýSynonyms for mentor include “tutor†and “coach.â€
Inherent in that definition is the desire of the mentor to helpÌýtheirÌýmentee grow in knowledge,ÌýexperienceÌýand confidence. The relationship is not necessarily transactional; theÌýmentor’sÌýreward is seeing the success of their mentee.
Youth Mentoring
According toÌý,Ìýhaving a good relationship with a mentor can have the following positive benefits for youth:
Increased high school graduation rates
Healthier relationships and lifestyle choices
Higher college enrollment ratesÌý
Stronger relationships with parents,ÌýteachersÌýand peers
Stronger interpersonal skills
Lower usage of drugs and alcohol
Unfortunately, a 2023 national studyÌýconducted byÌýÌýshows thatÌý35% of young adults grow up without the support of any mentor.Ìý
College Mentoring
While the role of youth mentorsÌýisÌýwell known,Ìýthe role of collegeÌýmentorsÌýis less so.ÌýBeyond serving as an academic advisor who tells you what courses to take to graduateÌýorÌýhow to improve your thesis, college mentors shouldÌýequallyÌýhaveÌýyourÌýcareer goalsÌýand aspirationsÌýin mind.
As theÌýSoutheast regionalÌýdirector forÌýonlineÌýnonprofitÌýWestern Governors UniversityÌý(with more than 3,200 active students in South Carolina),ÌýI’veÌýseen firsthand how our program mentors work with students from day one through graduation to help them achieve their goals. Engaged and dedicated college mentors can provide theÌýfollowing support:
Support for growth inÌýstudents’ÌýfieldsÌýof study,Ìýwhether or notÌýthey haveÌýprior experience orÌýcollegeÌýcredits
AssistanceÌýwith goal setting
Holding students accountable
Help with making professional connections
Discernment of learning strengths (e.g., visual, auditory, solitary vs. group, verbal, etc.).
Workplace Mentoring
How important is the role of mentorsÌýin business? Consider thatÌýÌýin the U.S.Ìýhave mentoring programs.Ìý
Here are just a few of theÌýÌýin the workplace:Ìý
Dramatically reduces staff turnover
Produces significant cost savings, particularly in turnover costs
Provides workers with the personal engagement they desire
Supercharges both personal and professional growthÌý
FostersÌýa sense ofÌýbelongingÌý
A good mentor canÌýgenuinelyÌýchange lives,Ìýposition mentees for prolonged success, andÌýprovide aÌýmentoring model we canÌýuse withÌýothers.ÌýLet’sÌýtake a moment this month to recognize the outstanding mentorsÌýin our lives andÌýencourage more individuals to take on thisÌývitalÌýroleÌýto mentor youth, collegeÌýstudentsÌýand employees.Ìý